Looking back through old pictures, I found a recurring theme. Over the 30 years my parents lived in the house I grew up in, so many pictures were taken on the living room stairs leading up to the bedrooms. We moved there in 1967, when I was just three years old. The floors and stairs were hardwood, and I remember the day my mom told my dad we needed carpeting. I had just crashed and burned for the umpteenth time onto the wooden stairs after running and sliding in my sock feet. I guess my little bruised kneecaps and shins were justification enough for covering the entire hardwood in the period-appropriate, green, sculptured carpeting.
The stairs were a good place to sit when talking to friends on the nearby corded phone in our kitchen.
It was the perfect place for the next generation to learn how to pull up and then, eventually, scoot up as fast as possible.
It was a place to sit and open presents at Christmas.
Many conversations were held on those stairs.
Those stairs have been traversed thousands of times since it was built in 1964.
And apparently, it was a great place to take pictures.
I drove back by the house about five years ago, and the current owners were outside, so I stopped. I introduced myself and told them that I had lived there all of my growing up years. Although they were not the people who bought the house from my mom and dad, they had questions, and so did I. After a few minutes, they invited me in, and we gave each other a tour—they showed me the present, and I shared the past. It was lovely.
A lot of things had changed, but of course, the stairs were still there. No more green, sculptured carpet, though. Someone had pulled it up and restored the beautiful hardwood floors.
Even now, I wonder if they take pictures there. I wonder if they sit on the stairs and talk—or nowadays, look at their phones. I wonder how many families that have lived there have a special spot they fondly remember. For me, the stairs were just one of them.